there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. wala rin namang perfect love. unless Dyos ka, then perfect love yun. pero dahil pare-pareho lang tayong tao, nagkakamali, nadadapa, at mga papampam, hindi natin kayang abutin ang perfect relationship. no matter how hard we try.
that sucks, i know. para siyang math problem na kahit anong gawin mong compute, hindi mo makuha ng tama. however, from what i've learned, we must learn to look at the big picture. as hard as it is, we need not focus on the minute details of the relationship. minsan kasi sa isa't isa, maraming mga bulilyaso, maraming katarantaduhan, maraming mga bagay na kahit maliit, nakakairita. hindi rin naman mali na magdamdam kapag may nangyaring unusual. kasi parte yun ng relationship. marami diyan, madalas mag-away. pero marami din diyan, sa dalas mag-away, madalas ding nagkakabati. because of this, we might think that we are stuck in a rut -- in a circle that always ends up biting us in the ass. yung tipong kapag narealize mo -- "pucha, ganito nanaman??"
however, what we do, as normal, erring, and emotional individuals is to make the most of the situation.
compromising or not meeting in the middle does not mean we love the person any less. it is inevitable that, we will not agree on some things at all -- walang gustong mag give in. sometimes, too, no one even wants to even hear the other person's side anymore. then again, it doesn't mean we love them any less. it's just that: there's no perfect relationship. we just have to be accepting of those ka-abnormal-an. ang love kasi, napaka weirdo niyan.
you know what, the ugliest and most repulsive trait, when seen through the eyes of love, become beautiful and endearing.
yun lang yun.
antok na ko.
ciao.
that sucks, i know. para siyang math problem na kahit anong gawin mong compute, hindi mo makuha ng tama. however, from what i've learned, we must learn to look at the big picture. as hard as it is, we need not focus on the minute details of the relationship. minsan kasi sa isa't isa, maraming mga bulilyaso, maraming katarantaduhan, maraming mga bagay na kahit maliit, nakakairita. hindi rin naman mali na magdamdam kapag may nangyaring unusual. kasi parte yun ng relationship. marami diyan, madalas mag-away. pero marami din diyan, sa dalas mag-away, madalas ding nagkakabati. because of this, we might think that we are stuck in a rut -- in a circle that always ends up biting us in the ass. yung tipong kapag narealize mo -- "pucha, ganito nanaman??"
however, what we do, as normal, erring, and emotional individuals is to make the most of the situation.
compromising or not meeting in the middle does not mean we love the person any less. it is inevitable that, we will not agree on some things at all -- walang gustong mag give in. sometimes, too, no one even wants to even hear the other person's side anymore. then again, it doesn't mean we love them any less. it's just that: there's no perfect relationship. we just have to be accepting of those ka-abnormal-an. ang love kasi, napaka weirdo niyan.
you know what, the ugliest and most repulsive trait, when seen through the eyes of love, become beautiful and endearing.
yun lang yun.
antok na ko.
ciao.
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